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Wonderful, moving stuff David. Thank you for sharing your good solid advice too ❤

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Thank you April :)

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Apr 23Liked by David M. Poff

What a beautiful story, I’m all teary now.

Big hugs!

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Apr 23Liked by David M. Poff

Lessons. A child of children of the depression I see you clearly as one of us. There’s treasure in patience and immunity from panic. And in the spare bedrooms and attics filled with others memories.

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So you've been to my house then.And you've seen the 8 Walmart plastic tubs full of all the pictures ever taken down my family tree ? 😆

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You’ve been to our house too?

What are we going to do with them??? (My diabolical thought: pick random addresses and mail each one a handful. No return address on the envelopes. Just before Thanksgiving maybe?)

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I can't even begin to describe how hard this made me laugh Patris. This is absolute genius- My kids and grandkids don't want me to throw them away.But none of them want to take over ownership of them... What a hilarious way to teach them a hard lesson by giving them to them in the mail where they won't have the heart to throw them out and will have no other choice.. I knew we were friends for a reason😄

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Apr 23Liked by David M. Poff

We’ve got to do something with them - Christmas cards maybe.

Stick around - I’ve got more ideas 😉

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Oh i'm not going anywhere. My youngest granddaughter said she would digitize all of them and create file folders but I have it bought the scanner yet.

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Good child! my son in law (we call him ‘the Saint’) has offered. But where’s the fun in that

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There is always a time and place.

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Completely agree, Stanley.

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May 3Liked by David M. Poff

It’s not acceptable anymore but is the world particularly a better place for it?!

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No, not at all.

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May 3Liked by David M. Poff

🙄

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Such good advice! (As an owner of 5 dogs... yep - either put it up out of the way or don't get upset when the puppy chews it.)

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Your brother did say it best, David. We grew up the same way.

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Wipes tear.

Thanks, Dave

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So relatable. So much good advice from your grandma.

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God only knows how I would have turned out if she had not been one of my two primary care providers :)

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My child at 15, is still learning a large number of things, using a toilet is one. I live your mantra.

Byron Katie’s: ‘loving what is’ and ‘who would you be without your story’ helped me get here.

Suffering is the story we narrate to ourselves.

I am thankful for all the amazing things my daughter can do. If I get sad, I think of the children who will never walk or eat with their fingers and mouth.

And I get passionate about fixing the corrupt medi-cull system. Our children deserve the best we can do for them.

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